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Staying in Nursing Without Losing Yourself
Struggling in nursing? Change starts with breaking one pattern at a time. We have more agency than you may think to make our work experience fulfilling.

Megan Filoramo
3 days ago3 min read


Beyond Burnout: Why “Getting By” Isn’t the Goal
Thriving—actually thriving, not just avoiding burnout—is possible. Feeling better isn’t a personality trait or a luxury; it’s a skill that can be learned. Many nurses are exhausted, unmotivated, and quietly just getting by. This piece explores why that makes sense, why it doesn’t have to stay that way, and how learning simple, practical strategies can help you feel better even in the midst of a demanding life.

Megan Filoramo
Jan 234 min read


Burnout Isn’t Just About Workload—It’s About Freedom
Burnout isn’t just about workload—it’s about freedom.
When systems feel rigid and reactions feel automatic, it’s easy to feel trapped. But what if one of our greatest freedoms is still available to us? This reflection explores how learned reactions shape our experience at work—and how pausing, noticing, and choosing a different response can change everything.

Megan Filoramo
Jan 164 min read


The Quiet Gratitude of Prevention
After 26 years in pain management, I’ve seen the profound impact of chronic pain on daily life. Today, I reflect on gratitude, prevention, and perspective—like the relief and protection a shingles vaccine provides. This story explores how reflection and intention can help healthcare professionals reconnect with purpose and approach their work with meaning and care in the new year.

Megan Filoramo
Jan 93 min read


Caring Is the Job:Ignoring Yourself Doesn’t Have to Be
Nurses are incredibly skilled at ignoring their own needs. We push through exhaustion, skip breaks, ignore full bladders, and silence our own discomfort so we can care for everyone else. Over time, self-ignoring becomes automatic—and burnout follows. Caring for yourself doesn’t mean caring less for others. You deserve rest, boundaries, and compassion too.

Megan Filoramo
Jan 23 min read


How to Stop Negotiating Your Rest
Many of us know how to stay busy, work hard, and care for others—but resting can feel harder than any of that. What if rest isn’t something you earn, but something you’re already worthy of? This is a reminder that downtime doesn’t need to be productive, justified, or deserved. Plan it. Protect it. Practice it. You are worthy of rest—no strings attached.

Megan Filoramo
Dec 26, 20253 min read


Doing All the Things Without Losing Ourselves
The final stretch of the year can feel relentless—full of obligations, traditions, and pressure to make everything meaningful. This reflection explores how presence, nervous system regulation, and attention to small moments can help sustain us through demanding seasons, especially for those who spend much of their time caring for others.

Megan Filoramo
Dec 19, 20252 min read


The Healing Power of Being There: Rediscovering Purpose in Healthcare
Discover the powerful impact of small acts of kindness in healthcare. This reflective piece guides clinicians to reconnect with their purpose by recognizing the meaningful moments of care they provide each week. By acknowledging how deeply their work touches patients and families, nurses can restore energy, find fulfillment, and remember why they chose to care in the first place.

Megan Filoramo
Dec 12, 20253 min read


How to Find Peace When You’re Always Preparing for What’s Next
If you’re constantly preparing for the next thing yet craving peace you can’t seem to reach, this piece is for you. Explore why busy seasons leave us restless, how small mindful pauses can calm the nervous system, and why simple joys—art, books, cozy moments, fresh air—help you reconnect with yourself. Discover how stepping out of preparation mode creates space for the peace you’ve been longing for.

Megan Filoramo
Dec 5, 20253 min read


Start Here: The Self-Care Habit That Costs Nothing
Gratitude is the simplest, zero-cost form of self-care—and you can start today. With Thanksgiving fresh in mind, try texting yourself 10 things you’re grateful for and repeat it daily. Pair it with a routine you already do to build consistency. Over 33 days, you’ll create a list of 330 good things in your life and enter 2026 feeling more grounded, resilient, and supported by your own habits.

Megan Filoramo
Nov 28, 20252 min read


2 words that can change your life
Feeling overwhelmed, reactive, or stuck in negative self-talk? This post reveals the surprising two-word reset that can calm your nervous system, soften catastrophizing, and shift your entire day. Rooted in neuroscience and real-life examples from healthcare, it shows how a tiny language tweak can transform stress into clarity and control. Curious how simple it is—and how fast it works? Dive in and see.

Megan Filoramo
Nov 21, 20254 min read


Seeing Yourself in the Symptoms: A Compassionate Look at Burnout
There is an overlap between symptoms of chronic pain and nurse burnout, and often nurses overlook their own struggles. It encourages readers to recognize burnout as a spectrum, respond with compassion instead of judgment, and honestly assess where they are before trying to “fix” anything. Healing starts with acknowledgment, acceptance, and honoring one’s own humanity.

Megan Filoramo
Nov 14, 20253 min read


Imperfect Action: The Secret to Feeling Better and Beating Burnout
Many of us know what to do to feel healthier and happier—but struggle to take action. This post explores why awareness isn’t enough and how small, imperfect steps can create lasting change. Whether it’s improving your wellbeing or feeling better at work, consistency matters more than perfection. Simple actions like gratitude, mindfulness, and reframing thoughts can make a real difference. Start small, stay steady, and commit to your own wellbeing—you are worth the effort.

Megan Filoramo
Nov 7, 20253 min read


Feeling Stuck? Why Awareness Isn’t Enough—and What to Do Instead
We all know what to do—but knowing and doing are two very different things. Change doesn’t come from awareness alone; it comes from small, consistent actions. Whether it’s improving your health or feeling better at work, imperfect steps taken regularly can transform how you feel. Start small, stay curious, and remember—progress beats perfection every time.

Megan Filoramo
Oct 31, 20253 min read


Success vs. Self-Care: Why We Think We Have to Choose
Many of us secretly believe we can’t be successful and take care of ourselves at the same time. This quiet myth drives exhaustion and burnout, especially for nurses who equate success with constant doing. But what if real success includes peace, balance, and fulfillment? By challenging the belief that self-care comes at a cost, we open the door to a version of success that sustains us—at work, at home, and within ourselves.

Megan Filoramo
Oct 24, 20253 min read


Nurses, Are You Ignoring Your Own Alarms?
Nurses are experts at caring for others—but what happens when we ignore the signals our own bodies send? This post explores how stress shows up physically, why we often miss it, and how simple mindfulness practices can help us reset before burnout takes hold. Listen, breathe, and rediscover your balance—your body is the best barometer you have.

Megan Filoramo
Oct 17, 20254 min read


From Tension to Confidence: Mastering Conflict and Difficult Conversations in Healthcare
Difficult conversations are part of healthcare, but they don’t have to drain you. With calm, empathy, and curiosity, you can turn tense moments into meaningful connection. Learn to stay grounded, speak with compassion, and build confidence in every conversation.

Megan Filoramo
Oct 10, 20253 min read


Refueling After the Shift: Nurse Wellness Tips for Beating Post-Work Exhaustion
After long shifts, many nurses come home drained, facing what feels like a “second shift.” Instead of elaborate plans that add pressure, simple, back-to-basics strategies can help restore energy—physically, mentally, and emotionally. From hydrating and mindful transitions to nourishing food, gratitude, and connection, even one small step can ease exhaustion and build resilience. Wellness doesn’t require perfection—just starting.

Megan Filoramo
Oct 3, 20253 min read


Burnout Grows Where Fires Keep Burning
When everything feels like it’s on fire—resentment, comparison, frustration—it’s no surprise that burnout follows. The flames don’t just consume your energy; they cloud your focus, your relationships, and even the care you give. The good news? You can step out of the fire. With one mindset shift, you’ll learn how to protect your energy, shift your focus, and reclaim purpose without burning out.

Megan Filoramo
Sep 26, 20253 min read


When It’s All Too Much: The Question We Forget to Ask Ourselves
Nurses are experts at caring for others—but often forget themselves.
In my latest article, I share a powerful patient story that reminds us to pause and ask: “What am I doing to take care of myself?”
A simple question, but one we all need.
What’s one thing you can do for yourself today?

Megan Filoramo
Sep 19, 20253 min read
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